g0od men are indeed all around you. You pass 'em on the streets, in the malls and the halls at work. Most of you can`t see 'em, 'cuz you d0n`t kn0e what a g0od man riLLy looks like. He usually isn't flashy enuFF or rich enuFF ta' turn yer head. He might not wear a suit or push a Lexus. He might not have a "body like Tyson with a Denzel face." But, as you mature, you realize it`s better to find someone who`s got yer back rather than someone who turns yer head. A g0od man d0esn`t agree wholeheartedly wit errything you say. He d0esn`t just tell you wut you wanna' hear and d0 the opposite. He d0esn`t declare how sensitive, sweet, caring 'n' sincere he is (he w0n`t have to because it sh0wz). He has his own opinions and yers may clash, but he d0esn`t have to degrade you to prove he`s right. He even admits at times to bein' wrong, especially if you are willing to d0 the same. A g0od man is not going to meet every item on yer checklist. He's human wit frailties 'n' faults mixed in wit all of his wonderful, strong attributes. He needs yer love and respect. He needs to feel that you d0n`t live to "catch" him d0in' somethin' wrong so you can declare, "Aha! I knew you were a dog!!"

A g0od man isn't insecure 'bout his woman havin' great achievements. In fakt, he's yer number one supporter 'n' becomes disappointed wit you when you begin to lose yerself, for the sake of "not hurting his feelings" or "I just want to make him happy." His happiness comes wit seeing you excel in yer dreams 'n' accomplishing yer goals. For as you excel and are exalted, a g0od woman will bring her g0od man right along wit her. A g0od man d0esn`t necessarily give you a huge birthday or Valentine`s gift. He sh0wz his love in the ways dat are comfortable ta' him. d0n`t judge him by TV standards. no 0ne is riLLy livin' a fairy tale. y0u`ll miss out on yer own fairy tale by buying into the myth dat men are no g0od. It`s jus' not true.